October 20, 2007
Nessun Dorma
After hearing the vague cheering (and not being able to make out whether it was cheers or jeers) through the movie I was watching, I'm delighted to tell you that we won't be getting any sleep in these parts tonight.
That's right. We won!!!
Final score: England 6, South Africa 15.
Redsaid |
11:47 PM
|
comment (1)
|
view »
trackback url:
http://www.redsaid.net/mt/mt-tb.cgi/353
Well, if we can't have it it's better you lot than those Northerners... grudging Congraulations
« close it
Rugby, apparently it isn't just a town in England
I'm lucky enough to be in Cape Town at the moment (usually my stomping grounds are a bit further inland, in Stellenbosch), where the excitement in the lead-up to the Rugby World Cup (our Springbok team will be playing against England) has officially reached fever pitch.
The sun has just set on a lovely summer's day, and not even the dark, chilly fog rolling in across the sea is doing much to dampen spirits around here.
From the celebratory noises - shrill car hooters piercing the air, people blowing on vuvuzelas (for the non-South Africans among you, a vuvuzela is a metre-long, brightly coloured plastic air horn that produces a noise not unlike an elephant's trumpeting when blown on it, and very popular with South Africans showing support at sporting events), people cheering and singing - one would swear that the match has already been won. Not even New Year's Eve inspires THIS much excitement in South Africa! It is almost palpable enough for a person like me who is (and admitting this on tonight of all nights will be akin to blasphemy, I'm sure) rather indifferent to the game to also be swept up in the enthusiasm.
This neighbourhood is packed with foreign tourists, and they have been leaning over their balconies and watching the madness going on in the street and on the stretch of beach visible from here with good-natured smiles. The match kicks off in a few hours' time in Paris, and if there is a favourable outcome, I predict that we won't be able to get any sleep tonight. I wonder if the tourists will still be so understanding then? (I'll feel especially sorry for the British tourists... NOT!)
So how's YOUR weekend going?
Redsaid |
10:02 PM
|
comment (0)
|
view »
trackback url:
http://www.redsaid.net/mt/mt-tb.cgi/352
« close it
August 02, 2007
Starting to feel more and more like home
Late this afternoon, I went to a shopping mall with my mom, my aunt and my sister.
Unlike most girls, I loathe shopping malls. But that's another story for another day.
On the way there, we drove on the three-lane highway, passing many subdivisions filled with identical houses. We also passed many advertising billboards, a big Toys "R" Us, a KFC, and a McDonald's.
At the mall, I wandered past a Nine West, a big local clothing store advertising that they're now selling clothes from the Gap, a Claire's and a Guess store.
But I almost wept from happiness when I discovered that this place* had just opened at the mall a month ago, and that they are the very first one in South Africa.
I immediately ran up to the shop, shrieking with delight. It was only once I had flung my entire body across the display counter, hugging it, that I overheard the manager telling one of the very stunned looking staff members: "She must be American. Only the American tourists have been reacting that way."
Now I only need a Starbucks.
Then again, a Green Card and a plane ticket back to D.C. won't hurt too badly either!
*What, surely you didn't think that I had gained weight in the States through sheer osmosis, did you?
Redsaid |
11:44 PM
|
comment (3)
|
view »
trackback url:
http://www.redsaid.net/mt/mt-tb.cgi/336
lol, isn't it funny how we miss the little things when we don't have them for awhile? I spent one year in the United States and although Canada and the excited States of America are similar in many ways, we are just as different. When we've grown accustomed to our comfort food we damn well better have access to it :)
Hope to be reading a post in the near future about Starbucks!
Well, Miked, I suppose I could always write a lengthy ode to my beloved Starbucks... yes, I know that's not what you meant and I appreciate the sentiment. I hope exactly the same thing!
And you know? I figure that if we can inherit the worst of the States (the so identical it's mind-numbing subdivisions - and just suburbia in general - the major highways, the billboards, some of the fast food franchises), we might as well get the rest as well. Except Bush of course. ;-)
free ringtones
ringtones
aflac ringtones
ringtone
college ringtones
xmas ringtones
download free ringtones
potter ringtones
omd polyphonic ringtones
cingular ringtones
mosquito ringtone
bruce springsteen ringtones
nascar ringtones
free nokia ringtones
verizon ringtones
american idol ringtones
fight song ringtones
motorola ringtones free
free sprint ringtones
funny ringtones
free mobile ringtones
free ringtone
free mp3 ringtones
polyphonic ringtones
mp3 ringtones
free verizon ringtones
ringtones for motorola
nokia ringtones
turkey ringtones
free ringtone downloads
paul van dyk ringtones
alltel ringtones
iphone ringtones
free mobile phone ringtones
free cell phone ringtones
nextel ringtones
sprint ringtones
free motorola ringtones
blackberry ringtones
download ringtones
free cingular ringtones
mobile phone ringtone
motorola ringtones
totally free ringtones
ringtones for a samsung
free ringtones samsung
starsplash ringtones
christian ringtones
ringtone software
level 42 ringtone
tori amos ringtones
ringtone mp3
free music ringtones
free real ringtones
free alltel ringtones
free blackberry ringtones
cingular wireless ringtones
funny ringtone
nokia ringtone
free nextel ringtones
cell phone ringtones
free christian ringtones
free phone ringtone
music ringtones
free polyphonic ringtones
free samsung ringtones
free ringtones for motorola phones
free cricket ringtones
free midi ringtones
bert kaempfert ringtones
mobile ringtones
crank ringtone
free cellphone ringtones
free tracfone ringtones
us cellular ringtones
at&t ringtones
free lg ringtones
smack that ringtone
tracfone ringtones
cellular ringtones
cheap ringtones
free ringtones for cingular
movie ringtones
real music ringtones
24 ringtone
ringtone ripper
att ringtones
kosheen ringtones
ringtone converter
transformers ringtones
free mosquito ringtone
free ringtones verizon
mp3 ringtone
akon ringtones
free cell phones ringtones
motorola ringtone
ringtones free
polyphonic ringtones free
free downloadable ringtones
free ringtones
download free ringtones
free nokia ringtones
motorola ringtones free
free sprint ringtones
free mobile ringtones
free mp3 ringtones
free verizon ringtones
free mobile phone ringtones
free cell phone ringtones
free motorola ringtones
free cingular ringtones
totally free ringtones
free ringtones samsung
free music ringtones
free real ringtones
free alltel ringtones
free blackberry ringtones
free nextel ringtones
free christian ringtones
free polyphonic ringtones
free samsung ringtones
free ringtones for motorola phones
free cricket ringtones
free midi ringtones
free cellphone ringtones
free tracfone ringtones
free lg ringtones
free ringtones for cingular
free ringtones verizon
free cell phones ringtones
ringtones free
polyphonic ringtones free
free downloadable ringtones
free funny ringtones
free ringtones for sprint
100% free ringtones
free us cellular ringtones
absolutely free ringtones
free t-mobile ringtones
free phone ringtones
free ringtones for cricket
free ringtones for sprint phones
free ringtones for nokia phones
download free mp3 ringtones
motorola v60 free ringtones
cell phone ringtones sanyo free sprint pcs downloads
site wwwmonstertonescom free sprint real ringtones
free ringtones downloads
free ringtones motorola
free logos ringtones
free ringtones for my motorola cell phone
free t mobile ringtones
free persian ringtones
free ringtones for alltel phones
free ringtones for verizon
download free midi ringtones
free real music ringtones
free sprint pcs ringtones for a680 samsung cell phones
free nextel cell phone ringtones
create free ringtones
free ringtones sprint cell phones
free sanyo ringtones
free sprint cell phone ringtones
verizon free ringtones
download free ringtones to cellphone
free cellular ringtones
free ringtones for cell phones
free ringtones for my cingular cell phone
free ringtones for verizon wireless
find free ringtones for my sprint pcs phone
free anime ringtones
free cell phone ringtones for nextel
free cellular south ringtones
free cingular ringtones usa
free download ringtones
free harry potter ringtones
free nextel i730 ringtones
free sprint pcs ringtones
free boost mobile ringtones
free ringtones for a sprint pcs phone
free treo ringtones
cingular phone free ringtones
composer motorola free ringtones
download free ringtones on lg 6000 verizon wireless
free cell ringtones
free ringtones for motorola
free ringtones for verizon phones
motorola free ringtones
nextel ringtones i730 free
ringtones free cell phone nokia 1220 ring tones
v3 ringtones free
completely free ringtones
downloadable us cellular free ringtones
free motorolas 3v ringtones
free ringtones alltel
free ringtones for motorola cell phone
free ringtones for nextel
free ringtones for nokia sprint phone 3588i
« close it
May 18, 2007
In the closet
Even though YOU probably don't know, I can assure you that all of my phantom readers are aware of my addiction to and subsequent elaborate collection of how-to books.
These books have followed me all the way back from the United States to Stellenbosch. Then from Stellies to the town of By George! And now that I have my own place (read: room), they are back in Stellenbosch with me.
The boxes containing my beloved how-to tomes arrived a bit after me. And since my has-been but ergonomically and economically friendly executive chair - the only piece of furniture I actually own - is devouring a lot of space in the room, it will take some planning to get a bookshelf in there.
So until then, the boxes and boxes of books have been carefully and lovingly stacked in the closet.
And now I'm wondering: Does that make me a closet intellectual?
Redsaid |
01:19 PM
|
comment (5)
|
view »
trackback url:
http://www.redsaid.net/mt/mt-tb.cgi/327
Absolutely, just the same as I'm a closet drinker... the wardrobe is the best place for my wine!
Thanks for visiting Hawaii. What sort of how-to are you most engrossed by?
got any books on how to arrange how-to books for easy access?
Hmm...
yes..yes it would.
SS
Something like Donald Rumsfeld? :-P
As we know,
There are known knowns.
We also know
There are known unknowns.
That is to say
We know there are some things
We do not know.
But there are also unknown unknowns,
The ones we don't know
We don't know.
Department of Defense news briefing
Feb. 12, 2002
« close it
April 19, 2007
My Big News
Okay, okay... so Monday's come and gone.
In my own defence, I had actually meant NEXT Monday. So I'm going to do something frightfully out of character and reveal my news early.
Okay, honestly? I just wanted you all to hold your breaths long enough so that you could get permanent brain damage, because no one in their RIGHT minds will read this blog, and I really want readers.
And now for the news...
read more »
I have MOVED!
Not, alas, to another exotic country again. I've just hauled myself and my collection of How-to books and my A-Z Time/Life Medical Encyclopaedia a mere four hours away from the town of By George! where I had been living with my mom since about a year ago.
So where am I now?
I'm back here. Conveniently located in the heart of the South African wineland.
(But that had nothing to do with my decision to move here, honestly!)
(Okay, so maybe just a leeeeeeetle bit.)
What's different from the last time I lived here (remember? I was a 'house guest' at my sister and brother-in-law's for about... oh, eight months or so last year. Was NO ONE paying attention when I left for the United States for a year and ended up staying NINE YEARS?) is that now, I have my very own place.
Well, 'room' would actually be more accurate.
But I'm finally living on my own and paying rent like an adult. And paying rent? Actually very overrated (Look! A pun!). I would recommend all young people to try and avoid it for as long as possible... or until the homeless shelter/yo mama/yo sista/yo brutha/yo any other relatives/friends kick your behind out onto the street.
Seriously though, today several things have happened. Good things. Things that make me think that this move might just have been a good one for me after all.
I feel as if my real life is about to begin...
Yeah, yeah, I know I'm 32 years late, but YOU should know by now that I've always been a bit slow on the uptake.
« hide more
Redsaid |
04:35 PM
|
comment (14)
|
view »
trackback url:
http://www.redsaid.net/mt/mt-tb.cgi/323
Well I'm sure you'll love it in your new digs... especially since you're in the heart of wine country :P
Utterly brilliant! Congratulations!
More please!
oh happy days. Congratulations on your move and you excellent taste in location (perhaps we could talk trade, here ... Startbucks for cape wine?)
Oh, how joyous! I have been away from the blogosphere for a long while, but I'm happy to revisit your site and find such cheery news!
And just WHEN do we get to do a quick lunchtime coffee meetup? You know where Stellenbosch Square is, right? We have a very nice Mugg & Bean here.. :-)
that sounds REALLY great! i'm glad things are looking up for you!
Nice.
Feels good, doesn't it?
Enjoy Stellies, it really is a magical valley (I have a place there, am occasionally tempted to move back...) Just go easy on the students, OK?
Congratulations on your move!! Very exciting times, indeed.
Welcome to the city under the montain :)
I agree, rent is totally overated.. :)
But Freedom..now theres something you cant buy.
Congratulations on the move and congratulations on growing up a bit more.
Red Dahling,
When did you get a paying job? Did this happen when I was off climbing the cliffs of insanity? Well congrats!! When can I come for a visit? I'll bring the Starbucks.
Oh, BEAUTIFUL!
Hey, if you gotta live somewhere, it might as well be wine country!
;o)>
« close it
August 01, 2006
A grainy glimpse into my world
"Grainy," because all these pics were taken with my cell phone. Let's pretend it was done on purpose, for artistic effect, shall we?
So, if a picture really IS worth a thousand words, then prepare to settle in for a hefty epic.
By the way, most of the pics you're about to see were taken around the same time as my one and only mug shot.
Below is the view (or rather, a vague idea of the view, because it's really much more impressive in real life) from my bedroom here at my mom's house. That mountain range is known as the Outeniqua, which is a Khoisan word meaning either "they who bear honey" or "place of honey." (At least all the translators were sweet enough to agree that honey was somehow involved.)

The bamboo wind chimes outside my mom's art studio provides a restful vibe. (Or maybe it's my recently upped dose of antidepressants?) Very Zen though, yes?


And remember that book gig I had in April? Well, these were my trusty assistants.

Popping into the office to take my coffee orders.

My other assistant emulating me on the job.

The absolutely perfect and very generous welcome home present I received from my brother-in-law. A book for every year that I was gone, and one extra for pain and suffering. (He didn't specify whose pain and suffering.) Had I known I would be rewarded for every year away, I would have stuck it out for at least another decade!

Just some of what my mom gets up to in her art studio.

And now I've officially pushed the limits on my daily allotted data. (I've worked out a strict "data diet" in order not to go over my cap. (And y'all KNOW how I feel about dieting! Let's just say, no wonder it contains the word "die." Suddenly all I want to do is eat all the Gigabytes my little laptop and my internet connection can possibly generate!)
Oh, these tiny bytes hurt the deepest! Only 30 days to go before I get a new share.
Suddenly I LOATHE months with 31 days...
read more »
Redsaid |
11:15 PM
|
comment (3)
|
view »
trackback url:
http://www.redsaid.net/mt/mt-tb.cgi/290
Red Dahling,
Beautiful Pics. Cellphones with cameras,but no unlimited internet. Very interesting. Great hearing from you. Talked to a friend,her husband is from Cameroon, I'll keep you informed.
i hope you'll be able to scale down that dose soon again. i'm here if you wanna "talk" ... hang in there! :)
lovely pics! I love the landscape of south africa, my roommate went home (originally from some smalltown outside of capetown) and brought back tons of pics....
Take it easy on the bytes, eat too much and it'll make ya sick. You know full well the withdrawls of the internet. So glad you're back!
« close it
July 28, 2006
Reality Bytes
Patience is an annoying, torturous, gratification-delaying, highly overrated virtue.
But patience DOES pay off... Eventually.
After another three month "visit" (sheesh, didn't ANYONE pay attention and get the hint when I went to the States for a quick jaunt and ended up staying there for NINE YEARS?) on my bro-in-law and sister's farm in Stellenbosch, I returned to my mom's house in the wild, hip, happening city of By George! (Located about four hours east of Cape Town.)
When I left here three months ago, I had no laptop, no job and the internet situation was DIRE (otherwise spelled like this: D-I-A-L-U-P.)
I returned with a freelance internet writing/editing job, a laptop (yes!) AND a high speed (yes, really, even by international standards) wireless internet connection.
The laptop virtually dropped from the sky and into my lap (which, come to think of it, is a rather excellent place for a laptop to land). It's beautiful, if a tad vintage and temperamental, but a recent expert opinion has revealed that, with careful handling, it ought to see me through for a while longer.
It contains a DVD-writer (so we're happy to report that at least one true writer is associated with the laptop!).
The data usage on the wireless connection is also capped (only if you have MEGA bucks and/or live in a large metropolis can you get uncapped internet in South Africa, but their twisted definition of "uncapped" and an "all you can eat broadband!" buffet still means you are allotted only 10 Gigs to send and receive data. Scary, isn't it?), but at least I don't have to pay per minute anymore and land into this kind of trouble!
So I'm hereby the proud owner of 500 measly Megabytes per month. Yes, per MONTH, folks. That was the amount I used up in like three seconds back in the civilised world.
But even though my wireless data card has turned out to be a greedy little sucker, already devouring up scary amounts of precious megabytes from my account limit (and I've only had it since Tuesday) despite the fact that I'm not streaming anything, or downloading anything (other than opening webpages) it's still fantastic because I don't have to use THEM.
So goodbye streaming radio and video!
And fare thee well, beloved music downloads!
But hello again beloved internet and blog! Brace yerselves, 'cause I'm back.
Redsaid |
11:55 AM
|
comment (11)
|
view »
trackback url:
http://www.redsaid.net/mt/mt-tb.cgi/289
Did you hear that? All around the internet world I could swear I heard a chorus of cheers!
Maybe I'm wrong, it could have just been from my cubical.
500 mb? ouch, I can do that in a day!
Tips on saving your precious bandwidth... try surfing without viewing photos. You can do this in the preferences option of your browser. It may not be fun, but it'll help.
Hey you!!
Welcome Back!!! You have really really been missed!!
:) Im happy :)
SS
Ha! Did you take my suggestion and get iBurst?
Oh, the blessed relief. We have been missing you sorely!!!
Welcome back!
Weloome back! And congrats on the job too!
Can't wait to hear more..
Reading Redsaid is like a two-hour lunch, such a long time between bytes!
Welcome back!
weheeeee, welcome back to the www, red. we missed ya!
It's good to welcome someone back for a change :-)
Nicely done, we need more Africans here, for good reasons!
Red Dahling,
I have missed you soooo much. Welcome Back.
« close it
April 27, 2006
Things I miss about the States/Things I don't
It’s been four months since the demise of my American Dream, and now that I’m back here in my native land, in this geographically far-flung outpost, I’ve reached a few conclusions about some things. Like about what I miss about the United States:
Some of the people I knew there.
Starbucks!
ALL the dogs I knew there.
Affordable books, CDs, electronics, travel, etc.
The Salvation Army store where I bought second-hand hard covers for A QUARTER.
Starbucksstarbucksstarbucksstarbucksstarbucks...
Inexpensive, super fast and UNCAPPED (as it should be, by human right) broadband internet.
STARBUCKS!
Reliable, fast, safe public transit in places like D.C., Boston, New York City, Portland, Oregon and San Fran where people really do not need to drive.
S*T*A*R*B*U*C*K*S!
Free local calls, which means hours on dial-up internet (if one really have to) without worrying about the phone bill.
Believe it or not, but Network TV. Here we have to pay for the channels that broadcast the same type of shows that one gets for free on American Network TV. Some things do make it onto our free channels, but overall the pickings are rather slim. NOT that I’m addicted to the telly or anything, no way. Oh, and at least Oprah and Dr. Phil are still on the free channels, even though the shows are months old by the time they get here.
Good ol’e garbage disposals. Sure, I may not have cooked in the States, but man, did I have fun trying to see what can/can’t go down the garbage disposal!!!
Heat inside the houses, ‘cause here in South Africa, houses are built mostly for our long hot summers without much thought left for the winters, which seem to be getting increasingly longer and chillier. Just a few weeks ago, the South African Weather Service announced with what seemed to me way too much glee, that after several years of milder than usual winters (for which I wasn’t here), South Africa is in for years of old-fashioned, ice-cold winters. Of course it’s happening now that I’m back! That’s just so TYPICAL of my bleedin’ luck.
I miss how every state seems like a different country, complete with the residents speaking in different accents and possessing different idiosyncrasies.
The general belief and confidence among the American people that nothing is impossible and that anyone can become anything they want to be.
Free coffee in the grocery store while you shop.
Free coffee refills.
Great live music in the most unlikely places.
I miss having people hanging onto my every word simply because of my accent.
Radio stations devoted solely to jazz.
And just in case you didn’t hear me before: S...T...A...R...B...U...C...K...S!
Things I do NOT miss about the States.
Some of the people I knew there.
Bush.
Snow, sleet, ice and brutally cold winters that never ever seem to end.
Daylight Saving Time. Sure, the extended daylight hours are lovely in summer, but I used to hate that they changed the clocks back again in the fall, causing it to go dark before 5 in the afternoons.
Having to deal with the double combo of US Immigration and my Immigration Liar and feeling that my whole life depended on them. I still can’t decide which of the two was worse to deal with. I’ve since reached the conclusion that I’d rather take on Satan himself with my bare hands than having to go through that pain and anguish again.
Feeling cut off from the world because unless you really make an effort to search for news on the internet or have access to BBC, there generally really isn’t much attention given to what’s going on in the rest of the world by the American media, which I think is in large part to blame for why some Americans seem rather ignorant to outsiders.
Redsaid |
01:09 PM
|
comment (7)
|
view »
trackback url:
http://www.redsaid.net/mt/mt-tb.cgi/276
God bless America.... and Canada too :o)
Actually I missed a lot of things about the united states when I left and moved back North of the border too. America has the greatest junk food in the world lol
I missed Starbucks when I left the US ... thankfully I'm in the UK now and I can once again enjoy the caffeine goodness!
uh hello, T*A*R*G*E*T. and all those TJ MAXX like stores where you can get cool shit for, like, nothing... free water [+ lemon when you ask] with your meal at a restaurant... olive garden *sigh* and a decent cesar's salad. there are lots of things i miss even though it's been forever since i lived there. of course what i miss most is my man. and i know there would be TONS of things i would miss from germany if would live there. there's no perfect place, you just have to make wherever you "end up" the perfect place for you. so get DSL, red. seriously! :)
oh man do I miss you - and this having a job thing SUCKS for my keeping up with my daily blog reading... it's more like weekly or even further apart now. YIKES! Red, what has become of us?
two muffins are sitting in the oven, one looks to the other and says "damn its getting hot in here." The 2nd muffin looks over and says "holy shit! a talking muffin!"
'Bush' is Australian for forest. Just imagine what fuss the Americans would make if our Prime Minister was called 'Mr John Savannah'. Yeah, we'd never heard the end of it.
There's really no point to that anecdote.
two biggest things I miss...Smoking bans in restaurants, free water with my meals, and the assumption that someone will hit you if you park in the middle of the street. (yeah, that crazy german woman was both shocked at upset that we clipped her car even though she was parked completely blocking one lane of the road)
« close it
April 19, 2006
Re(d)porting for duty. WHADOYOUMEAN I should stop inserting a (d) in words that don't even contain the letter "d" in order to make my own lame play on words? WHADOYOUMEAN the title for this post is too long?
I can’t help but notice that all three of you have been falling over yourselves to find out why I have been so quiet. I’m really touched to know that people (even phantom ones) care so much about my well-being and about whether I’m still alive or not.
WHADOYOUMEAN it’s nothing unusual for my lazy self to not update this blog for weeks, even months, at a time which is why you weren’t worried?
Oh, right... Never mind then.
Well, just so you know. For once I DO have a valid reason for my silence. Well, at least slightly more valid than watching too many Dr. Phil and Oprah episodes back-to-back, which used to be my usual excuse back in the States.
Ah, those WERE the days... but before we get side-tracked completely and this bit of news becomes entirely anti-climactic:
I have been quiet lately because I... brace yerselves... have.............
read more »
(Was your computer upload slow? Sorry, ha ha! Oh, please allow me these small amusements I have.)
.... gotten....
.... oh, what’s the point in drawing it out any longer: a JOB!
No, dumplings. Your peepers have not deceived you. You did indeed read correctly (unless you’re Dyslexic like me, but that’s another blog post altogether): I have gotten meself a job. A J*O*B. Also known, among the more refined set, as E*M*P*L*O*Y*M*E*N*T.
Another far less appealing alias it goes by is plain “work” – that very foreign thing which I have managed to avoid for so long, not allowing it to interfere with all that time I’ve spent lounging in bed and on the couch.
Never mind the fact that, as of yet (and if this was a box containing medicine or poison, this next part would be the very, VERY fine print; so fine it would be almost completely illegible) I’m not making any money from it. Satisfaction is my reward, and of that I have a lot.
Here’s the gory story of how I have gone from broke and unemployed to still broke but at least employed VIRTUALLY OVERNIGHT!
Shortly after my relocation to this hip, lively town of By George!, in a shameless display of nepotism, my mother’s cousin offered me a job.
So here I am, three days into it, and every day I get to fondle and run my fingers slowly up and down spines and just lose myself in the task at hand.
No, no ye dirty minded beasts. I’m not a masseuse. Or a chiropractor. I know I often THINK I’m some type of medical professional, what with all that useful knowledge and wisdom imparted to me by my much-loved and much missed Time/Life A – Z Medical Encyclopedia (hopefully still en route somewhere on the Atlantic Ocean between here and the shores of the United States and not missing forever). But no, these spines I refer to are not of the human kind.
You see, my boss is an avid book collector and dealer, and my glorious job is to assist him in getting the books in a data base from which it will be sold over the internet. (I have yet to part with a book that has been sold, and needless to say, I’m NOT looking forward to it, which probably doesn’t bode well for my future as a book dealer).
Walking into my boss’s beautiful house was, for me, the equivalent of walking straight into paradise: Not only has he been adopted by a large yellow Labrador who allows him to reside with her in his house (provided of course that he continues to dispense regular feedings, ample snacks and long walks on the beach), but floor to ceiling shelves heave under the weight of the thousands of books they hold.
Hundreds more books overflow into every available space, and thus some end up being neatly stacked on chairs while tables become cities with towering skyscrapers made of books. Books, books, and even more books fill every nook and cranny in his house, and I LOVE it.
There are new books, old books, rare books, used books. Art books, cook books, gardening books... novels, autobiographies, biographies, fantasy, and non-fiction. Every genre is covered. Yes, even my beloved How-To books!
There are cloth-bound first editions with yellowing, fragile pages, making my jaw drop in awe and wonderment.
The best of all are the autographed copies that fill me with reverence whenever I touch them, knowing that the same book I’m handling, feeling its precious weight in my hands, were held by the person who created the words and pictures contained within its covers.
That connection and imaginary kinship I then feel with the author and/or artist is a magical thing, and I naively cling to a quiet (but infinitely high) hope that one day some of that ability to create something that will last for a long time will rub off on me too, and that perhaps, in a distant future somewhere, another girl will hold a book written and signed by me, and be inspired in the same way, and that the cycle of creativity will continue to flow without interruption, into infinity.
« hide more
Redsaid |
04:07 PM
|
comment (9)
|
view »
trackback url:
http://www.redsaid.net/mt/mt-tb.cgi/274
That is the best news... you little beauty!!!
Totally jealous of course, books are many of my favourite things too!!
All those words...
Delicious.
well, its good that you got a job... but you still havent emailed me back!
Excuse me while I DIE OF ENVY.
Congratulations!
The money may not be rolling in (yet) but you seem satified and content with your new job. I'm quite envious, surrounded by books all days with the beach in walking distance.. sigh
it sounds like you're feeling great about the job so who cares about money. plus, maybe this is just a start and you will eventually move on and make some money. a book-related job sounds PERFECT for you :)
Red, you're not lysdexic, and I'm ertainlyc not lysdexic either, but bodyevery else is.
Goncratulations on your new job!!!!
I do hope I was counted among the three (har har) that have been missing you. But, hurrah! for jobs. Especially jobs wherein you get to fondle books. ;)
contraduladions!
Red that's wonderful news... and yes, I'm almost possitive that one day you will inspire another soul with your writing. You've got that certain je ne sais qua about you. Simply look at those who've commented before me :)
One more thing, ya gotta keep us "Red Heads" (I just coined the name of your fans) in the know more often.
Red Dahling,
Hooray for you. Welcome to the world of bookselling. Maybe this will inspire you to write your own novel. I just figured that you were trying to settle in at your mom's place. I figured that you would update us when you were ready.
« close it
April 03, 2006
The Second Leg of my Repatriation Begins
By George! I'm moving. Again.
To this place.
See you all on the other side.
Redsaid |
03:40 AM
|
comment (8)
|
view »
trackback url:
http://www.redsaid.net/mt/mt-tb.cgi/271
Looks beautiful. Do the dolphins come standard with your new place?
have an easy move, red. and get back to us with news as soon as you can ;)
And what, pray tell, is in George?
I love george, I was there only once, and it was when I was very young, but it left quite an impression :) Im sure you will find it as enchanting as i did :)
Red Dahling,
Are you leaving the vineyard for good ? Well just remember: Wherever you go, we will follow.....
RED!
Gosh!
Did you see this website?
http://www.reporter.co.za
They pay you R35 per article published.
Woo...I know that's not much...but hey, you're greating at online journalism...so why not??
wat the hell is greating?
i do apologise for it red.
My george, By George, Hope you enjoy you new "nest" and explore as much as you can
« close it
March 17, 2006
An Attempt At Creative Writing (Okay, who am I kidding? It's an attempt at WRITING, never mind trying to get all creative about it.)
I have recently returned to South Africa after almost a decade of living abroad, and since I have family here, I decided to try and become part of the colourful, quilted patchwork of valleys, vineyards, mountainous and sweeping oceanic vistas of the Western Cape. So I came to see if this land would adopt me and allow my vagabond soul to anchor here and find rest.
At first, I was the proverbial prodigal daughter who had returned after a long absence, but after being away for so long, I felt a bit out of sync with the rhythms of sun-drenched South Africa and family life.
And so before the novelty of my homecoming had even begun to wear off, loneliness crept up and enveloped me in its snare like a heavy and unsettling cloak.
I wasn't necessarily bothered by the fact that I was single in a world that suddenly seemed to be teeming with couples. With baggage containing the shards of several shattered relationships trailing in my wake, I was willing to travel emotionally light for a while.
Besides, in attempting to repatriate and reconnect, I had more than enough on my plate to redirect my mind away from my forlorn, tattered heart.
But then…
Shortly after my arrival here in the heart of the South African wine country, I made a rather thrilling acquaintance. Maybe I'm confessing this a bit prematurely, but I would like the world to know that I have been completely swept off my feet.
My family has known him for longer than I have, and I'm afraid that they don't quite share in my adoration. In fact, they have made it clear that they find his presence a bit annoying.
Maybe my former rebellious streak has reappeared in full force after abandoning me in my late teens, because much to my family's dismay, I find him to be a breath of fresh air.
They have warned me of his fickleness; told me that he is notorious for turning on a dime, for blowing hot one minute and cold the next.
I say that he gives me gooseflesh when he does. (Somehow they do not find this amusing.)
They're not even impressed by the fact that he is a rather renowned doctor who is helping me to heal my heart. They still think he is an airhead who talks about nothing.
I surprise them and lead them to believe that they've finally managed to sway my opinion when I answer that they're right, but immediately dash their hopes when I add: "Especially when I consider the sweet nothings he whispers in my ear!"
Alas, some things one just can't explain to one's family.
Like how, whenever I hear him outside, I fling open my bedroom windows, allowing him to slip in and stay the night.
And even if I had wanted to tell them, how could I translate into words how he sometimes gently caresses my skin, without sounding like a love scene from a cheap paperback romance novel? How do I prevent sounding as sappy as a smitten schoolgirl when I describe how he languidly combs his fingers through my hair, leaving me flushed and giving me chills and making me feel reckless, wild and free?
I don't think they'll ever know how he has this disarming way of just sweetly sighing when he looks at me.
Or about the mournful, melancholy melodies he sometimes whistles late at night, when he thinks that I am sleeping.
My mother says he is too petulant and temperamental. She worries about the startling violence with which he slams the doors whenever he gets riled up. She also accepts as fact all those lingering rumours of how he has driven scores of people to insanity.
I don't believe the silly gossip, but like my mom, I'm not particularly fond of his flaring outbursts. I know he isn't destructive at heart, so I really wish he wouldn't slam the doors with such deafening force that they are left rattling and trembling in their hinges.
I also despise the childish way he has of jealously demanding attention by grabbing my writing papers and strewing them about when I'm trying to work.
But no one is perfect, and other than his occasional temper, I really don't have any complaints about him. Besides, in my opinion we have enough in common to make this relationship work.
Like me, he isn't at his best in the mornings, rarely stirring before late morning or noon, and definitely only gaining momentum as the day progresses.
There are days when he just takes off like a whirling dervish. At times like those, he seems utterly boundless: partying until dawn and kicking up dust with the best of them.
I think he is merely energetic and passionate, and therefore often misunderstood.
I wish others wouldn't be so blind to his lighter side. Then they'll see that he is a harmless, if relentless, tease with a wicked sense of humour. I wish they knew how mischievous and playful he gets. How he sometimes sneaks up from behind and like a real devilish flirt, tries to lift up my skirt.
I know that not everyone is immune to his charms. I have seen the visible effect he has on others as well. I know that I'm not the only one who loves him, and that my family isn't the only ones to despise him. It's interesting that I've never encountered anyone familiar with him who is indifferent towards him.
As he has been darting in and out of my days, I have found a solace and peace in his free-spirited presence. He has whipped my blood and stirred up my senses. His contagious vigour has left me breathless, yet he has filled my heart and cleared my head and blown new life into me.
No wonder he's been dubbed the Cape Doctor.
Southeaster wind, whisk me away…
Redsaid |
12:49 AM
|
comment (16)
|
view »
trackback url:
http://www.redsaid.net/mt/mt-tb.cgi/265
You know, I could almost learn to love this doctor, the way you describe him... :) But I'll leave him to you to adore.
wow... this post took my breath away. I hope we hear lots more of the Cape Doctor!
Red Dahling,
I'm confused again. Are we referring to a man ? I'm not sure what the weather in Capetown has to do with anything? Remember that I was a blonde in my previous life. And if it is a man, has he touched you inappropriately yet ? You know how sex-crazed we Americans are. By the way,guess who is pregnant? (hint) Not me.
Brilliant post, you had me going there for a minute, up until probably your fifth to last paragraph. I must say, I'm more like your family - hate this doctor, thus I visit Cape Town - but live in Pretoria, only get those types of "doctors" when it storms!
Again brilliant post, you've got talent!
Thank you for popping by to congratulate me. And it's great to come across someone who has recently returned to SA. I am SO keen to find a decent job back home so that I can stop this migrant working lark.
Awww, shucks. Thanks poppits! Now you have me all blushing and stuff, which means that my complexion now perfectly matches my (and is camouflaged by) me hair. Which isn't a pretty sight. Which is why I spend most of my time in hiding, scribbling stuff like this.
ah, there you are! lovely post. i was definitely tricked until pretty much the last sentence. yeah, i'm quick like that. actually, i think you're just good. (hello!) :)
So glad you found my new(ly designed and earth-tone laden) site!
Also: I'm here for the stroking anytime. ;) Wow. That sounded rather dirty.
That'll teach me to jump to conclusions.....
Well done - awesome post!
And I still wait..............................
I am in two minds here my thoughts confused!!!! I have in front of me "contact" with a friend -old and Dear Girlfriend - once again I try send my message, getting NO response....Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- and without realising quite NEAR. I have next to me a treasure I have kept through the years ..... Pictures and Poems fill the flip file ...... and maybe dreams ..... which I see come close to true.
Remember those dreams, remember studing for them, both you and me, life does play us all!!!! and we play life. I wish upon you the success you have been searching for.....and for me....the sight of you!
Hi,
I just discovered your blog through the South African Blog Awards. Congratulations on winning Best Writing! I'll be back to read more of your work. It's very refreshing!
I felt certain the story was going to have a canine outcome given your affection for them...
Beautifully written Red!
Don't they have msn in SA?
man, up until i hit that link i really thought you were talking about a dude :) awesome writing, red! hope you're starting to feel better... *hugs*
WOW , I was totally blown away , you should be doing something with all that talent :D
http://pg0.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg1.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg2.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg3.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg4.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg5.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg6.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg7.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg8.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg9.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg10.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg11.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg12.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg13.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg14.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg15.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg16.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg17.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg18.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg19.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg20.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg21.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg22.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg23.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg24.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg25.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg26.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg27.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg28.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg29.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg30.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg31.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg32.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg33.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg34.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg35.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg36.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg37.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg38.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg39.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg40.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg41.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg42.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg43.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg44.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg45.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg46.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg47.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg48.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg49.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg50.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg51.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg52.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg53.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg54.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg55.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg56.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg57.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg58.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg59.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg60.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg61.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg62.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg63.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg64.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg65.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg66.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg67.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg68.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg69.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg70.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg71.ioa990ls.com -
http://pg0.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg1.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg2.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg3.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg4.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg5.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg6.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg7.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg8.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg9.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg10.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg11.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg12.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg13.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg14.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg15.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg16.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg17.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg18.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg19.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg20.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg21.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg22.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg23.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg24.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg25.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg26.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg27.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg28.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg29.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg30.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg31.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg32.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg33.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg34.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg35.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg36.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg37.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg38.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg39.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg40.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg41.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg42.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg43.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg44.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg45.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg46.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg47.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg48.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg49.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg50.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg51.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg52.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg53.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg54.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg55.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg56.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg57.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg58.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg59.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg60.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg61.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg62.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg63.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg64.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg65.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg66.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg67.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg68.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg69.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg70.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg71.ioailo0002.net -
http://pg0.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg1.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg2.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg3.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg4.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg5.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg6.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg7.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg8.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg9.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg10.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg11.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg12.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg13.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg14.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg15.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg16.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg17.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg18.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg19.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg20.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg21.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg22.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg23.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg24.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg25.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg26.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg27.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg28.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg29.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg30.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg31.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg32.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg33.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg34.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg35.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg36.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg37.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg38.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg39.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg40.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg41.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg42.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg43.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg44.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg45.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg46.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg47.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg48.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg49.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg50.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg51.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg52.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg53.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg54.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg55.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg56.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg57.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg58.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg59.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg60.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg61.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg62.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg63.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg64.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg65.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg66.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg67.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg68.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg69.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg70.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg71.ionkdownload.com -
http://pg0.kaop0k.com -
http://pg1.kaop0k.com -
http://pg2.kaop0k.com -
http://pg3.kaop0k.com -
http://pg4.kaop0k.com -
http://pg5.kaop0k.com -
http://pg6.kaop0k.com -
http://pg7.kaop0k.com -
http://pg8.kaop0k.com -
http://pg9.kaop0k.com -
http://pg10.kaop0k.com -
http://pg11.kaop0k.com -
http://pg12.kaop0k.com -
http://pg13.kaop0k.com -
http://pg14.kaop0k.com -
http://pg15.kaop0k.com -
http://pg16.kaop0k.com -
http://pg17.kaop0k.com -
http://pg18.kaop0k.com -
http://pg19.kaop0k.com -
http://pg20.kaop0k.com -
http://pg21.kaop0k.com -
http://pg22.kaop0k.com -
http://pg23.kaop0k.com -
http://pg24.kaop0k.com -
http://pg25.kaop0k.com -
http://pg26.kaop0k.com -
http://pg27.kaop0k.com -
http://pg28.kaop0k.com -
http://pg29.kaop0k.com -
http://pg30.kaop0k.com -
http://pg31.kaop0k.com -
http://pg32.kaop0k.com -
http://pg33.kaop0k.com -
http://pg34.kaop0k.com -
http://pg35.kaop0k.com -
http://pg36.kaop0k.com -
http://pg37.kaop0k.com -
http://pg38.kaop0k.com -
http://pg39.kaop0k.com -
http://pg40.kaop0k.com -
http://pg41.kaop0k.com -
http://pg42.kaop0k.com -
http://pg43.kaop0k.com -
http://pg44.kaop0k.com -
http://pg45.kaop0k.com -
http://pg46.kaop0k.com -
http://pg47.kaop0k.com -
http://pg48.kaop0k.com -
http://pg49.kaop0k.com -
http://pg50.kaop0k.com -
http://pg51.kaop0k.com -
http://pg52.kaop0k.com -
http://pg53.kaop0k.com -
http://pg54.kaop0k.com -
http://pg55.kaop0k.com -
http://pg56.kaop0k.com -
http://pg57.kaop0k.com -
http://pg58.kaop0k.com -
http://pg59.kaop0k.com -
http://pg60.kaop0k.com -
http://pg61.kaop0k.com -
http://pg62.kaop0k.com -
http://pg63.kaop0k.com -
http://pg64.kaop0k.com -
http://pg65.kaop0k.com -
http://pg66.kaop0k.com -
http://pg67.kaop0k.com -
http://pg68.kaop0k.com -
http://pg69.kaop0k.com -
http://pg70.kaop0k.com -
http://pg71.kaop0k.com -
http://pg0.nisporady.com -
http://pg1.nisporady.com -
http://pg2.nisporady.com -
http://pg3.nisporady.com -
http://pg4.nisporady.com -
http://pg5.nisporady.com -
http://pg6.nisporady.com -
http://pg7.nisporady.com -
http://pg8.nisporady.com -
http://pg9.nisporady.com -
http://pg10.nisporady.com -
http://pg11.nisporady.com -
http://pg12.nisporady.com -
http://pg13.nisporady.com -
http://pg14.nisporady.com -
http://pg15.nisporady.com -
http://pg16.nisporady.com -
http://pg17.nisporady.com -
http://pg18.nisporady.com -
http://pg19.nisporady.com -
http://pg20.nisporady.com -
http://pg21.nisporady.com -
http://pg22.nisporady.com -
http://pg23.nisporady.com -
http://pg24.nisporady.com -
http://pg25.nisporady.com -
http://pg26.nisporady.com -
http://pg27.nisporady.com -
http://pg28.nisporady.com -
http://pg29.nisporady.com -
http://pg30.nisporady.com -
http://pg31.nisporady.com -
http://pg32.nisporady.com -
http://pg33.nisporady.com -
http://pg34.nisporady.com -
http://pg35.nisporady.com -
http://pg36.nisporady.com -
http://pg37.nisporady.com -
http://pg38.nisporady.com -
http://pg39.nisporady.com -
http://pg40.nisporady.com -
http://pg41.nisporady.com -
http://pg42.nisporady.com -
http://pg43.nisporady.com -
http://pg44.nisporady.com -
http://pg45.nisporady.com -
http://pg46.nisporady.com -
http://pg47.nisporady.com -
http://pg48.nisporady.com -
http://pg49.nisporady.com -
http://pg0.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg1.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg2.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg3.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg4.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg5.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg6.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg7.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg8.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg9.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg10.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg11.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg12.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg13.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg14.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg15.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg16.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg17.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg18.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg19.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg20.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg21.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg22.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg23.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg24.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg25.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg26.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg27.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg28.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg29.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg30.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg31.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg32.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg33.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg34.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg35.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg36.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg37.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg38.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg39.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg40.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg41.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg42.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg43.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg44.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg45.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg46.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg47.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg48.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg49.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg50.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg51.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg52.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg53.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg54.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg55.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg56.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg57.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg58.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg59.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg60.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg61.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg62.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg63.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg64.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg65.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg66.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg67.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg68.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg69.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg70.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg71.oftheloversi.com -
http://pg0.olaop90s.net -
http://pg1.olaop90s.net -
http://pg2.olaop90s.net -
http://pg3.olaop90s.net -
http://pg4.olaop90s.net -
http://pg5.olaop90s.net -
http://pg6.olaop90s.net -
http://pg7.olaop90s.net -
http://pg8.olaop90s.net -
http://pg9.olaop90s.net -
http://pg10.olaop90s.net -
http://pg11.olaop90s.net -
http://pg12.olaop90s.net -
http://pg13.olaop90s.net -
http://pg14.olaop90s.net -
http://pg15.olaop90s.net -
http://pg16.olaop90s.net -
http://pg17.olaop90s.net -
http://pg18.olaop90s.net -
http://pg19.olaop90s.net -
http://pg20.olaop90s.net -
http://pg21.olaop90s.net -
http://pg22.olaop90s.net -
http://pg23.olaop90s.net -
http://pg24.olaop90s.net -
http://pg25.olaop90s.net -
http://pg26.olaop90s.net -
http://pg27.olaop90s.net -
http://pg28.olaop90s.net -
http://pg29.olaop90s.net -
http://pg30.olaop90s.net -
http://pg31.olaop90s.net -
http://pg32.olaop90s.net -
http://pg33.olaop90s.net -
http://pg34.olaop90s.net -
http://pg35.olaop90s.net -
http://pg36.olaop90s.net -
http://pg37.olaop90s.net -
http://pg38.olaop90s.net -
http://pg39.olaop90s.net -
http://pg40.olaop90s.net -
http://pg41.olaop90s.net -
http://pg42.olaop90s.net -
http://pg43.olaop90s.net -
http://pg44.olaop90s.net -
http://pg45.olaop90s.net -
http://pg46.olaop90s.net -
http://pg47.olaop90s.net -
http://pg48.olaop90s.net -
http://pg49.olaop90s.net -
http://pg50.olaop90s.net -
http://pg51.olaop90s.net -
http://pg52.olaop90s.net -
http://pg53.olaop90s.net -
http://pg54.olaop90s.net -
http://pg55.olaop90s.net -
http://pg56.olaop90s.net -
http://pg57.olaop90s.net -
http://pg58.olaop90s.net -
http://pg59.olaop90s.net -
http://pg60.olaop90s.net -
http://pg61.olaop90s.net -
http://pg62.olaop90s.net -
http://pg63.olaop90s.net -
http://pg64.olaop90s.net -
http://pg65.olaop90s.net -
http://pg66.olaop90s.net -
http://pg67.olaop90s.net -
http://pg68.olaop90s.net -
http://pg69.olaop90s.net -
http://pg70.olaop90s.net -
http://pg71.olaop90s.net -
http://pg0.onidownload.net -
http://pg1.onidownload.net -
http://pg2.onidownload.net -
http://pg3.onidownload.net -
http://pg4.onidownload.net -
http://pg5.onidownload.net -
http://pg6.onidownload.net -
http://pg7.onidownload.net -
http://pg8.onidownload.net -
http://pg9.onidownload.net -
http://pg10.onidownload.net -
http://pg11.onidownload.net -
http://pg12.onidownload.net -
http://pg13.onidownload.net -
http://pg14.onidownload.net -
http://pg15.onidownload.net -
http://pg16.onidownload.net -
http://pg17.onidownload.net -
http://pg18.onidownload.net -
http://pg19.onidownload.net -
http://pg20.onidownload.net -
http://pg21.onidownload.net -
http://pg22.onidownload.net -
http://pg23.onidownload.net -
http://pg24.onidownload.net -
http://pg25.onidownload.net -
http://pg26.onidownload.net -
http://pg27.onidownload.net -
http://pg28.onidownload.net -
http://pg29.onidownload.net -
http://pg30.onidownload.net -
http://pg31.onidownload.net -
http://pg32.onidownload.net -
http://pg33.onidownload.net -
http://pg34.onidownload.net -
http://pg35.onidownload.net -
http://pg36.onidownload.net -
http://pg37.onidownload.net -
http://pg38.onidownload.net -
http://pg39.onidownload.net -
http://pg40.onidownload.net -
http://pg41.onidownload.net -
http://pg42.onidownload.net -
http://pg43.onidownload.net -
http://pg44.onidownload.net -
http://pg45.onidownload.net -
http://pg46.onidownload.net -
http://pg47.onidownload.net -
http://pg48.onidownload.net -
http://pg49.onidownload.net -
http://pg50.onidownload.net -
http://pg51.onidownload.net -
http://pg52.onidownload.net -
http://pg53.onidownload.net -
http://pg54.onidownload.net -
http://pg55.onidownload.net -
http://pg56.onidownload.net -
http://pg57.onidownload.net -
http://pg58.onidownload.net -
http://pg59.onidownload.net -
http://pg60.onidownload.net -
http://pg61.onidownload.net -
http://pg62.onidownload.net -
http://pg63.onidownload.net -
http://pg64.onidownload.net -
http://pg65.onidownload.net -
http://pg66.onidownload.net -
http://pg67.onidownload.net -
http://pg68.onidownload.net -
http://pg69.onidownload.net -
http://pg70.onidownload.net -
http://pg71.onidownload.net -
http://pg0.osmikolo.org -
http://pg1.osmikolo.org -
http://pg2.osmikolo.org -
http://pg3.osmikolo.org -
http://pg4.osmikolo.org -
http://pg5.osmikolo.org -
http://pg6.osmikolo.org -
http://pg7.osmikolo.org -
http://pg8.osmikolo.org -
http://pg9.osmikolo.org -
http://pg10.osmikolo.org -
http://pg11.osmikolo.org -
http://pg12.osmikolo.org -
http://pg13.osmikolo.org -
http://pg14.osmikolo.org -
http://pg15.osmikolo.org -
http://pg16.osmikolo.org -
http://pg17.osmikolo.org -
http://pg18.osmikolo.org -
http://pg19.osmikolo.org -
http://pg20.osmikolo.org -
http://pg21.osmikolo.org -
http://pg22.osmikolo.org -
http://pg23.osmikolo.org -
http://pg24.osmikolo.org -
http://pg25.osmikolo.org -
http://pg26.osmikolo.org -
http://pg27.osmikolo.org -
http://pg28.osmikolo.org -
http://pg29.osmikolo.org -
http://pg30.osmikolo.org -
http://pg31.osmikolo.org -
http://pg32.osmikolo.org -
http://pg33.osmikolo.org -
http://pg34.osmikolo.org -
http://pg35.osmikolo.org -
http://pg36.osmikolo.org -
http://pg37.osmikolo.org -
http://pg38.osmikolo.org -
http://pg39.osmikolo.org -
http://pg40.osmikolo.org -
http://pg41.osmikolo.org -
http://pg42.osmikolo.org -
http://pg43.osmikolo.org -
http://pg44.osmikolo.org -
http://pg45.osmikolo.org -
http://pg46.osmikolo.org -
http://pg47.osmikolo.org -
http://pg48.osmikolo.org -
http://pg49.osmikolo.org -
http://pg50.osmikolo.org -
http://pg51.osmikolo.org -
http://pg52.osmikolo.org -
http://pg53.osmikolo.org -
http://pg54.osmikolo.org -
http://pg55.osmikolo.org -
http://pg56.osmikolo.org -
http://pg57.osmikolo.org -
http://pg58.osmikolo.org -
http://pg59.osmikolo.org -
http://pg60.osmikolo.org -
http://pg61.osmikolo.org -
http://pg62.osmikolo.org -
http://pg63.osmikolo.org -
http://pg64.osmikolo.org -
http://pg65.osmikolo.org -
http://pg66.osmikolo.org -
http://pg67.osmikolo.org -
http://pg68.osmikolo.org -
http://pg69.osmikolo.org -
http://pg70.osmikolo.org -
http://pg71.osmikolo.org -
http://pg0.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg1.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg2.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg3.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg4.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg5.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg6.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg7.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg8.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg9.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg10.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg11.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg12.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg13.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg14.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg15.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg16.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg17.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg18.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg19.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg20.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg21.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg22.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg23.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg24.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg25.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg26.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg27.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg28.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg29.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg30.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg31.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg32.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg33.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg34.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg35.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg36.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg37.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg38.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg39.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg40.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg41.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg42.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg43.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg44.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg45.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg46.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg47.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg48.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg49.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg50.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg51.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg52.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg53.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg54.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg55.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg56.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg57.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg58.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg59.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg60.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg61.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg62.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg63.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg64.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg65.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg66.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg67.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg68.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg69.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg70.thedaydownloao.com -
http://pg71.thedaydownloao.com
« close it
March 05, 2006
Montevue Farm (and a short detour into my heart)
Edited to say: Before I could come to my senses, I decided to use this to participate in this week's Weekly Anamnesis (the brain-child of THIS beloved brainiac). The theme for this week is "waiting." So what are YOU waiting for? Play along, why don't you?
The paved, narrow farm road leads up a subtle slope between tidy rows of grape vines. These rows of vines sit at an angle with the road. This, I’ve since learned, is to help guard against erosion.
At the end of the road, a stern-looking gate and matching electric fence stand on permanent, protective guard along the perimeter of the yard, compelling would-be visitors to linger at the intercom first.
Once permission to enter is granted, the remote controlled electric gate slowly rolls aside in a sweeping welcome gesture. Two grinning dogs, a sweet yellow Labrador Retriever and a spunky Jack Russell terrier, make up an enthusiastic, entire-hind-bodies-wagging, welcome committee.
At the edge of the paved driveway and parking area sits the sprawling sand-coloured ranch house. Flanked by two double-garages on either side, it forms a perfect U-shape.
The inside of the house is even larger than the outside makes it seem, because that’s when one realises that the bottom of the “U” is merely the width of the house and adjacent apartment – almost as if the length of the house had to remain a modestly guarded secret.
Despite the ample width of the house, large windows and sliding glass doors provide plenty of natural light indoors.
Because the house is located on the side of a hill (but very close to the top of it), those large windows and doors frame the most spectacular, picturesque views. I shall try my best to describe it, but even at my best, I’m sure I’ll still do an inadequate job. My limited vocabulary could never do it justice.
The view is a daily gift, because it changes frequently, sometimes hourly. Its fixed features include a lush garden with a sparkling swimming pool immediately in front of the house; the vineyards surrounding the house; the university town of Stellenbosch spread out in the valley below, nestled in and surrounded by the colourful, quilted patchwork of other vineyards sprawled out over more hills, giving it the appearance of a slightly unmade, but wholly comfortable, bed.
Behind the town and those vineyards, more valleys and hills gently slope and roll out to the reason for the name of the farm: the high mountains looming beyond. On sunny days, the mountains and their jagged edges are clearly silhouetted against blue skies. On cloudy days – my favourites - such as today, the top half of the mountains are veiled by the low, drifting grey clouds, giving them a ghostly, mysterious appearance.
In the evenings, there is a temporary hush. It’s as if the entire world quiets down, collectively holding its breath for the most stunning scene of all: the daily grand finale, when the sunset faithfully reflects on the mountains, causing them to light up and glow in varying hues from rosy, pastel pink deepening into fiery reds.
When darkness finally descends, the town lights below flicker on, looking like a string of pearls resting in a shimmering heap on a black velvet cushion.
This is the heart of the South African wine country. Area tables heave and groan under the weight of the bounty, and visitors are treated to bottles of world-class reds and whites and sparkling wines, with bunches of the plumpest, sweetest red and white grapes added to the cheese platters as edible garnish.
For the past few weeks, ever since my return from the States, I have been in the privileged position of being one of those visitors benefiting from this warm hospitality.
The farm and house I’ve mentioned belong to my brother-in-law, my sister and my nephew. Upon my recent return from abroad, they have generously taken me under their roof and into this sanctuary of a home they’ve created.
I have not written too much about it yet, but my homecoming back to South Africa, after my uninterrupted, nearly decade-long reversed exile in the States, has not exactly been what one would call triumphant; and this transition period of repatriating and readjusting has been difficult, to say the least.
But had it not been for this familial kindness, this entire process would have been that much harder.
Every day I get to marvel at this view and derive inspiration from it.
I get to pet the two dogs and feel their velvety soft ears under my fingers. That in itself should be prescribed medication! (“Stroke one dog and I assure you that you won’t call me in the morning!”)
I get to play with my nephew and make faces at him. I wasn’t here for his birth. In fact, I only met him for the first time on the day of my homecoming a few weeks ago on Christmas Day, and he is going to be three years old in July.
Before I came home, I was very scared that my nephews wouldn’t like me; that they would never recognise me as family. (My other sister has a two-year old and a one-month old.)
But much to my joy and relief, I found out - as soon as they threw their plump little arms around my neck, thus initiating me into ‘auntydom’ - that blood is thicker than all the waters of the ocean that has separated me from them until now.
Despite all of this, there are moments when my mind still ventures to the gloomier side. At times I miss the States and my life there (which, trust me, wasn’t much of a life at all) and the people I knew there with such forceful violence that I could weep from it. During those times, I tend to agree with Tom Wolfe who wrote that one can never go home again. Or with John Steinbeck, who wrote in “Travels with Charley” (a magnificent little travelogue about travelling across the United States with his dog Charley): “The place of my origin had changed, and having gone away I had not changed with it. In my memory it stood as it once did and its outward appearance confused and angered me.”
It’s true. Despite my having been stuck in limbo half a world away, time did not stand still in this place that I had left behind. Everyone grew older (including me, of course, even though my life in almost all other aspects remained on the same plateau for a long time). Some of the people I had left behind even died while I was away.
Kids who weren’t even born when I left are now already in school. My sisters and friends were unmarried when I left; now they have husbands and wives and children. My parents have crossed over to a new demographic in which they are now officially classified as ‘senior citizens.’
I feel like someone who has been in a coma and who has now woken up to find that it’s a decade later. And I’m not quite sure what I’m supposed to do with my regained consciousness.
I’m also still unsure as to why my life has detoured like this: Why did I have to return this way, tail-between-the-legs, sans the Green Card I had waited so many years to receive? Does my purpose and destiny really await me here, in sun-drenched South Africa?
I can only ask you to please bear with me as I fumble my way slowly forward, into this scary unknown, where an answer hopefully awaits to reveal itself to me.
Redsaid |
05:05 PM
|
comment (11)
|
view »
trackback url:
http://www.redsaid.net/mt/mt-tb.cgi/264
Girlfriend...
Start writing a book... this is awesome.
I second that... I'm so glad to know you're staying somewhere so beautiful, and so safe. Keep on taking care of yourself with doggy and kiddie love... they heal almost all wounds.
Red Dahling,
I agree that you should write a book about your experiences. Though you refuse to believe it, you are a very talented writer. Your stories of living as an illegal alien in the U.S. are the stuff that movies are made of. We know that truth is stranger than fiction.
Your story needs to be heard. Maybe this is your purpose. I work in a book store; Do you know how many books we carry,that are truly crappy? You have as much,if not more talent than most of these people. So as big Mama would say,"Girl, stop whinning, go grab yourself a bottle of wine and start writing." Because you have a novel that needs to be written. Then you can come back to visit us in the States. You go girl.
A book tour would indeed seem a rather fun way to return to the U.S. of A.
And because I wanted to play, too, and because you said we should, I am waiting for: my degree to start paying me back in myriad job interviews which lead to offered positions with large starting salaries and riverside-view apartments. Thankfully I'm NOT waiting any longer for: my new site design, wee!
A book tour sounds like a fantastic idea, but the book part might be a lot of work. Why not just go on the tour and do the writing afterwards? I can just see the publicity now:
"PRESENTING: An evening with a famous soon-to-be author of a definitely WORLD-FAMOUS book!"
I can hardly wait for the Australian leg of the tour. I'll be first in line to get an autograph ...
... although I suppose it might be a bit difficult to sign a book that hasn't been written yet, but we'll find our way around that.
I remember the day you won the win a blog contest. I can't believe this is where we've come to all this time later. The entry was beautiful, and I hope you find peace and home in South Africa again soon.
Red Dahling,
Everyone is in agreement, that you MUST write a book. Also you must dedicate it to us: your loyal readers . And go on a world wide book tour to "promote" this book. I'm already planning a party at the Mega-Bookstore & The Gin Mill. With all of the book signings, I'm sure we will get very thirsty.
i know i'm late on this one, but awesome writing!
and i think nothing happens without a reason so the past [almost] decade in the USofA was part of your destiny and you'll certainy find out how and why it was good at some point. just like you will find out why you're back home now and what you're supposed to be doing there... it'll all be good and fall into place. just don't ever loose hope and the believe in it. sending smooches your way! :)
I am in two minds here my thoughts confused!!!! I have in front of me "contact" with a friend -old and dear- and without realising quite NEAR. I have next to me a treasure I have kept through the years ..... Pictures and Poems fill the flip file ...... and maybe dreams ..... which I see come close to true.
Remember those dreams, remember studing for them, both you and me, life does play us all!!!! and we play life. I wish upon you the success you have been searching for.....and for me....the sight of you!
I would want ................................................................ to be there with the launch of your first book and everyone after that............no no no, make that an I WILL BE THERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Destination is a strange concept, we just have to figure out our destiny!!!!!!!
« close it
January 27, 2006
Post-Travelling Blues
My limbs feel weighted, as if though I’m wading through deep, rough water. I’m lagging.
Even the mythical slow pace of Africa seems too fast for me.
Redsaid |
05:31 PM
|
comment (11)
|
view »
trackback url:
http://www.redsaid.net/mt/mt-tb.cgi/256
Don't worry, you'll get back into the swing of things.
Oh, there you are!
Hello, welcome back...
Thinkin boutcha...
I know you need some more horror DVDs to brighten your day,
Sending you sunshine from here girl. Hang in there.
welcome back hehe.... You should pop over to JHB, then we'll talk about fast paced.
rrrrrrred - so good to hear from you. even though what we hear doesn't sound too great. hang in there. at this point it can only get better, right?
sending a big, huge hug and smooch from germany :)
Sneding hugs, kisses and good karma your way. sweetie! Miss you tons!
Red Dahling,
I'm trying to figure out on how to get you back home. I might have to contact Oprah. Do you show Oprah there ? But until,we figure it out....Drink more wine.
Naturally......We all have those days!
Luv & Miss U
Hello! Great blog! if you have an interest I can welcome you to my page! low rate credit card http://low-rate-credit-card.buy-cheap-pharmacy.com/low-rate-credit-card Respect to author! You are real genius!
« close it
January 09, 2006
This one is especially for my first anonymous commenter
Remember how I’ve been begging you all to send me hate mail so that I too could get a taste of what it would feel like to be a P*O*P*U*L*A*R blogger?
Well, stop the clock! Because at last, someone who apparently didn’t like what I had to say in this last post, took the time especially to not only dream up a pseudonym (the very heart-warming “Yourreader”), but also a fake e-mail address (Yourreader@email.com) AND to – even after going to all that trouble - still leave me a comment! This has made me almost as happy as the day I was Googlewhacked. Okay, okay… even happier!
The tone of the comment wasn’t exactly hateful (so I’m pushing it a bit by pretending that it’s hate mail), but perhaps – and knowing how much I’ve been pining to be a hate mail recipient – you’ll allow me to classify a bit of attempted sarcasm as “hate mail.” Please?
Well, in order to inspire “Yourreader” to write me again, I’ve decided to elaborate a bit further on the previous topic and so I’ve come up with Crime, the Beloved Country Part II. It’s all about how those of us who are unlucky enough to live in South Africa (where the sunsets are so fiery, they hurt your eyes; where the sunshine is so bright and hot and continuous, you run the risk of getting stricken with something terrible called “happiness”) can utilize the high crime rate in South Africa to make us all fit and look extremely fabulous.
Girls (and metrosexual guys with manbags): when out in public, clutch your handbags SO tight that you develop those triceps and biceps and get beautifully cut upper arms.
After a night on the town, linger a bit and then - but only after all your friends had already left - leave the restaurant/club/bar on your own. Walk slowly. Wear high heels (good for the calve muscles) and, just when you’re about to be attacked/murdered (preferably just attacked. When your assailants are already wielding blunt objects or other types of weapons, like guns, it might be a bit too late. But it’s totally up to you to decide), break into a run. For the most effective cardio workout (as recommended by doctors around the world), see to it that your car is parked a good 30 – 45 minute sprint away. Try to do this 3 – 5 nights a week.
If you’re not a night owl (why on earth not? I like sunrises as well as the next person, but you’d have to admit, the timing of it is awfully inconvenient), try to reverse the exercise by going for an early morning stroll. Perhaps you’ll be lucky enough to encounter a rare early-bird criminal.
I’ve heard that most criminals prefer to operate at night, though, so they might be a bit scarce at that time of day. Unless you catch them on their way home from their previous night out, at which time they’ll probably still be drunk, so yes, on second thoughts, this might work. Although you’ll have an unfair advantage of a full night’s sleep over them.
Your criminal might be in a foul mood after a night of no sleeping and from having to walk home with a terrible hangover, so that volatile temper, coupled with the criminal’s normal behavioural issues, might be enough to level the playing (er… running) field again. So go for it, you early-birds!
If auto racing is more your style and you wish to attract car hijackers instead, well, then you’re in luck. I’ve heard that this is very easy to do, especially in the Johannesburg/Pretoria area (known to locals as Gauteng Province). You simply have to obey traffic rules. You know, stop at red lights and stop signs, that sort of thing. Again, this is also very effective when done at night, but apparently it doesn’t really matter.
If you still want to race your car, but don’t really wish to necessarily run the risk of actually LOSING your car to the hijackers, I’m happy to tell you that there are other ways. For instance, instead of attracting hijackers, tempt the snatch-and-grab type criminals. You do this by wearing jewellery when driving around in your car. And we’re not even talking the crown jewels here, although wearing that will almost certainly guarantee that your need for speed will be satisfied. Also make sure that all your valuables (like your handbag, MP3 player, etc.) are arranged on the seat next to you, in full view of anyone looking in from the outside of your car.
You could have your windows rolled down, but this isn’t even necessary. In fact, since most criminals seem to enjoy a little challenge (otherwise they probably would have chosen professions that are a bit more dull, like journalism or psychiatry), do NOT have your windows open.
Buckle up, be vigilant but, above all, enjoy the ride!
Redsaid |
04:52 PM
|
comment (14)
|
view »
trackback url:
http://www.redsaid.net/mt/mt-tb.cgi/255
Maybe you should go walking with your pet tiger to deter felons. Here in Australia, whenever I leave the house, I make sure I have my koala Cuddles with me wherever I go. Whenever nefarious individuals approach me, the koala LEAPS onto them and SAVAGES them, tearing out their eyes!
You DO have a pet tiger, don't you? If not, I suppose an elephant would do just as well ...
i'm happy you finally got your "hate-mail-comment"
you deserve it after all you've been through :)
I tried this Red, but even leaving the (office, home, car) keys in the OUTSIDE of the door, and forgetting to lock it last night didn't give my any more exercise than usual... I'll have to think up something else! :)
I'm with TimT. When in doubt, pet tigers are always a good idea. Or Cheetahs. Cheetahs are faster. Or maybe just some Cheetohs. Sure, Cheetohs can't protect you like a Cheetah or tiger, but boy can they stave off those pesky cheesy cravings. Ok, I think I'm just hungry right now. ;)
Crime in South Africa? Never! What an original topic for a blog. PLEASE?!? Everybody knows that SA has a crime problem - this is ancient news and hardly worth the effort.
So let me get this straight: You leave the snow and cold of the USA behind and return to awful, crime-ridden, dirty South Africa where you now sit on a wine estate in Stellenbosch and wax lyrical about something that the whole world knows about whilst sipping your chardonnay and peering at some of the best scenery on the planet. All the while thinking that 30 degrees C is just SO comfortable? While the maid makes your bed in the morning? Ah, life is so tough down in South Africa, eh, you thankless little bitch.
Crime in SA a topic for a blog? Please! Why don't you use the all the time that the house staff saves you by hiding behind the electrified fence and really THINKING of something to write, rather than waste your energy by making light of something that has been in the spotlight for so long that it has a bald patch where everybody has scratched...
Nice attempt at hate mail, Airmatix!!! If I hadn't known you in person, I would've been ALMOST convinced! Thanks for the effort nonetheless, it has been noted and the favour shall be repaid.
Kerri: Cheetos!!!! Now you've just given me something ELSE to miss!
Danke, Kim! Yes, if anyone out there knows how long I've been begging for hate mail, it would be you!
Timmy T.: Cuddles sounds VICIOUS!!!! Care to export him my way?
Red Dahling,
South Africa sounds just like Baltimore,except for the whole sunshine thing. I noticed that you didn't mention crazed drug addicts,or don't you have them there? If that's the case,I bet you miss trying to out run them and the homeless. It's sounds like
you never left the states at all. Well have fun on your holiday, I can't wait until you come back home. By the way, did you get my recent email ?
Remember denial ain't just a river in Eygpt.
Not a chance of my exporting Cuddles, I'm afraid. Not only would he SAVAGE the Customs officers, but in Australia we have a ban against exporting Deadly Weapons.
okay, it's been to loooong. how are ya? whattup witcha?
missing ya... :)
awww man, i want a Cuddles! all we have here are deer and try as they might, they're just not scary.
hope you're doin well babe!!
Wait a minute. Are you telling me that there are no Cheetohs in the South of A? The horror! The horror!
Hello [looks around the room] Is anyone home?
Grabs a coffee and sits down with a self help book on Living in the Southern Hemipshere... [with notes in the margins].
Drums fingers on the table... Pours out the bottle of wine she brought with her... pours 2 glasses in case it will draw out the resident with it's heady aromas of oak and curranty goodness...
Sigh
No Luck...
Sighs again.
Slugs her glass and leaves the bottle behind...
Hey, I can send some fuckhead from England called Dr. Zen your way! Hates Americans, loves terrorists, that sort of nut case.
How's tricks in SA??
« close it
January 04, 2006
Crime, the beloved Country
Had the security at Johannesburg International Airport been halfway as sophisticated as the security get-up here at my sister’s house in Stellenbosch, no one would ever have managed to steal even a luggage tag, let alone my entire laptop.
Electrified fences that serve as a fantastic insect repellent fortify the farmhouse. Every once in a while tiny sparks fly in the night as yet another spider or mosquito meets a shocking, spectacular demise. We witness those mini-executions in live broadcasts beamed onto the computer and television screens via several strategically placed close-circuit cameras.
If one of the unlucky victims happens to be on the bigger side of the entomological spectrum, it sets off a deafening and intricate domino effect: first the alarm wails throughout the house, which in turn throws everyone into a panicked frenzy. This leads to a security van rumbling up the farm road to inspect the cause of the alarm-trigger.
I know all of this, because on New Year’s Eve, shortly after sneaking into the house in the middle of the night, I was shocked into sobriety when the alarms began sounding. According to the security guard who showed up in the van some time later, the intruders appeared to have been an entire family of arachnids, who had tried and failed to make the fence their new neighbourhood for 2006. All that remained of their foolish move was a scorched, torn cobweb; its tattered remains tragically stirring in the breeze… At least the other insects in the vicinity had some fireworks to ring in the New Year and the barbecued carcasses of their former neighbours to snack on!
There are also gates that work with remote controls. Twenty years ago, I served as both the television and farm gate remote control in our household! See how technological advances are robbing today’s children of working for their room and board?
But if you think the outside security is impressive, you’ll think the indoor security resemble something hitherto only seen in James Bond movies. Once the gate IN the house (a necessity in most South African farmhouses, where it goes by the comforting name of “rape gate”) is locked at night, it separates the bedrooms and bathrooms from the living areas in the house.
Those living areas unfortunately include the kitchen. I say ‘unfortunately,’ because this means that, unless I dramatically improve my cat burglary skills – not very likely, since that will mean that I’ll have to become somewhat flexible, and in case you don’t remember, I’m so stiff, I can hardly lift a finger – I’ll be unable to get to the kitchen and a midnight snack. But I have to say, thanks to the rape gate and those high and low and crisscrossed laser beams separating me from the food, I have already lost about ten pounds since coming back from the States.
Perhaps we can turn it into the next diet and exercise craze? Security companies could make infomercials (because infomercials can now unfortunately be seen on South African television as well): “Allow us to install a rape gate between you and your kitchen! Eventually you’ll be so skinny, you’ll be able to make it out between the bars!”
And: “Are you a security AND fitness conscious South African? Then allow us to install our state of the art, high tech laser beam alarm system in your home, a STEAL at just half a million Rand per square centimeter AND we’ll throw in our new exercise DVD, “The Laser Beam Limbo” FOR FREE! Our hunky fitness trainer/security guard will show you how to limbo your way to a lithe and limber frame in a few complicated maneuvers! Trip up, and you’ll trip the alarm and risk waking the whole neighbourhood!”
The more adventurous can sign up for the Scale a Security Fence course. For a few extra thousand Rand, and to help you improve your climbing speed, they’ll even electrify the fence for you.
I just figure that since we have to live behind bars in this country anyway, we might as well look fantastic doing it!
Redsaid |
08:30 AM
|
comment (15)
|
view »
trackback url:
http://www.redsaid.net/mt/mt-tb.cgi/254
man that sounds wild with all the security and stuff. maybe you should work on your uploading-pics-to-my-blog-skills and show us some of what you've described in colour some time? i'd love to see how and where you live now.
hope you're doing good. sending a smooch. :)
I am in tears at the thought of being tortured like that. I NEED MY FOOD! I will have to mount a rescue effort. Just as soon as I have a snack.
Ok, I'm dreadful out of it - but is rape in people's home really happening that often? Wow. just wow.
Hi Red,
I'm just one of your screaming fans popping in to see how things are going. You have hi-tech security gates protecting the kitchen? Does this mean you have to get dressed up in a cat suit every time you want a midnight snack?
sounds quite daunting, I'm gonna have to come visit if i know i can drop 10lbs... lol
As funny as you make it sound, I've lived it and I know it's not actually that funny. My thoughts are with you. Sterkte.
I'm with Kim on the photo thing!!!
The pictures could double as promo shots for the ad campaign you'll be mounting to sell this new fitness regime...
Red Dahling,
It's wonderful to hear from you. MISS YOU MUCH, I've lost about 10lbs too since you've left me here. But I had the flu. I was to sick to to even drink. Damn those pesky dieases. I can't believe they lock the food up at night, it sounds like living in Fort Knox. I guess you will have to raid the kitchen before they set the alarms. The Thirsty Crew sends their love.
Hey wife #2
HON!!!!!
glad U made it home and miss U already
Joey/Chill
Hi Red
I'm sorry you have to live in a place like South Africa which seems to give you no pleasure whatsoever. I hope someday you'll get to live in a country of your choice.
Wow - I am on my way, ten pounds in ten short days, thats what I need. Sounds like you are having quite the adventure so far, never a dull moment. Looking forward to coming to check that security system out for myself some day soon.
Keep well...miss you much.
Keely
Red - that sounds a bit more advanced than the system in a house I frequented once - where there were two gates seperating the two bedrooms/bathrooms from the rest of the living area. No laser security there but scary to consider the need to lock the gates every night. Hope that you are doing alright in all ways.
Hey You!
Love your site. Hope all is going well (or, at least, better!).
Thought I'd send something to put a smile on your face (I hope):
Why We Love Children!!
--A kindergarten pupil told his teacher he’d found a cat, but it was dead. “How do you know that the cat was dead?” she asked him. “Because
I pissed in its ear and it didn’t move,” answered the child innocently. “You did WHAT??!!” the teacher exclaimed in surprise.
“You know,” explained the boy, “I leaned over and went ‘Psst!’ and it didn’t move.”
--A little girl goes to the barber shop with her father. She stands next to the barber chair, while her dad gets his hair cut, eating a snake cake. The barber says to her, “Sweetheart, you’re gonna get hair on your Twinkie.” She says, “Yes. I know. And I’m gonna get boobs, too.”
--A small boy is sent to bed by his father. Five minutes later:
“Da-aad…”
“What?”
“I’m thirsty. Can you bring a drink of water?”
“No. You had your chance. Lights out.”
Five minutes later:
“Da-aad…”
“WHAT?”
“I’m THIRSTY. Can I have a drink of water?”
“I told you NO! If you ask again, I’ll have to spank you!”
Five minutes later:
“Daaaa-aaaad…When you come in to spank me, can you brink a drink of water?”
--An exasperated mother, whose son was always getting into mischief, finally asked him, “How do you expect to get into Heaven?” The boy thought it over and said, “Well, I’ll run in and out and in and out and keep slamming the door until St. Peter says, ‘For Heaven’s sake, Dylan, come in or stay out!’”
--One summer evening during a violent thunderstorm a mother was tucking her son into bed. She was about to turn off the light when he asked with a tremor in his voice, “Mommy, will you sleep with me tonight?” The mother smiled and gave him a reassuring hug. “I can’t dear,” she said. “I have to sleep in Daddy’s room.” A long silence was broken at last by his shaky little voice: “The big sissy.”
--It was that time, during Sunday morning service, for the children’s sermon. All the children were invited to come forward. One little girl was wearing a particularly pretty dress and, as she sat down, the pastor leaned over and said, “That is a very pretty dress. Is it your Easter Dress?” The little girl replied, directly into the pastor’s clip-on microphone, “Yes, and my Mom says it’s a b*tch to iron.”
--When I was six months pregnant with my third child, my three-year-old came into the room as I was preparing to get into the shower. She said, “Mommy, you are getting fat!” I replied, “Yes, honey, remember Mommy has a baby growing in her tummy.” “I know,” she replied, “but what’s growing in your butt?”
--One day the first grade teacher was reading the story of Chicken Little to her class. She came to the part where Chicken Little warns the farmer. She read, “…and Chicken Little went up to the farmer and said,’The sky is falling!’” The teacher then asked the class, “And what do you think the farmer said?” One little girl raised her hand and said, “I think he said: ‘Holy Sh*t! A talking chicken!’” The teacher was unable to teach for the next 10 minutes.
Wishing you all the best with hugs & Kisses!
Mike (that naked Sean guy)
Oi, yourreader- you're a sarky little blighter, ne? Pull your sense of humour out of your bottom and play nicely.
You needed a vacation. see you soon sis.Tell bookstore to call me.
« close it
Well, if we can't have it it's better you lot than those Northerners... grudging Congraulations